TRUE SISTERS LOVE…THEY DO NOT COMPETE

TRUE SISTERS LOVE…THEY DO NOT COMPETE

So look deeply at this moment captured at our recent incredible 4th Annual Team Love Your Vibe retreat this past week.

Do you SEE it? Do you FEEL it?

This is what happens when we choose to show up differently. When we decide that the old paradigm of women tearing each other down, competing for scraps, and playing those exhausting Mean Girl games is DONE in our world.

✨ This is what TRUE SISTERHOOD can look like. ✨

For too long, and especially as a former professional dancer/cheerleader, I carried wounds from spaces where women felt they HAD to compete — where celebrating someone else’s light somehow meant dimming your own. Where vulnerability was weaponized. Where support came with conditions and hidden agendas.

I know many of you have those same scars. You’ve felt the sting of betrayal from other women. You’ve walked into rooms and felt that familiar tension — wondering who’s sizing you up, who’s waiting for you to fail, who’s keeping score.

It SO wasn’t your fault. It stems from patriarchal conditioning.

But here’s what I’ve learned in our Love Your Vibe community:
When we create spaces where women feel genuinely SAFER, SEEN, CELEBRATED, and SUPPORTED — something miraculous happens. The walls come down. The masks fall away. The competition dissolves into collaboration. We can become incubators for each other’s healing, truth & evolution ☆

In our 6-month transformation journey together, I watch women shed layers of conditioning that told them they weren’t enough, or that they were too much and had to stay in their box for others’ comfort.

Instead, they discover:

  • Your light doesn’t dim mine — it ignites it
  • Your healing creates space for mine
  • Your breakthrough gives me permission for my own
  • Your authenticity calls forth mine

✨ This is the culture we’ve co-created — and it’s changing everything. ✨

No judgment. No hidden agendas. No keeping score.
Just fierce, protective love for each other’s journey.
Just celebration of every small step and massive leap.
Just the radical act of women choosing to lift rather than tear down ♡

When we feel truly safe to be ourselves — messy, imperfect, still-figuring-it-out selves — we can UNDO old conditioning & become unstoppable ☆ 

Not because we’re competing against anyone else, but because we’re finally free to become who we were ALWAYS meant to be!

The woman in this photo with me?
She is  Jennifer Hawkins, the beautiful self love guide & founder of ‘Blossoming Truths’& fabulous co-creator (along with FAB founder of ‘Holistic Eleanor’, Eleanor Hayward) of The Love Your Vibe Transformation ♡

She embodies this truth every single day. She shows our community what it looks like to lead with love, to celebrate others’ wins as if they were her own, to hold space without agenda… which helps us ALL to heal & grow in sacred space ♡

Together, we’re proving that the old way doesn’t have to be THE way. We’re writing a new story — one where sisterhood isn’t a battlefield but a sanctuary… a siSTARhood ☆

✨ Ready to experience this for yourself?
The Love Your Vibe Transformation isn’t just about personal growth — it’s about healing in community, surrounded by women who celebrate your BECOMING ☆

Because you deserve a community that sees your light and helps you shine brighter!

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