Today I want to share something that’s been both inspiring & empowering for me this week ☆
Recently, I manifested a copy of ‘Mel Robbins’ audiobook,
“The Let Them Theory,” and let me tell you—it’s been absolutely riveting!
From the very first chapter, I could feel her words unlocking something profound within me.
Her message is simple yet life-changing:
You see, we cannot control another’s opinion of us, and we must make peace with this fact.
Here’s an important truth: adults will always judge us. It’s simply part of human nature, and we cannot do a single thing to stop it.
What we can do is realize that judgment is completely normal and not a reflection of our worth.
The beautiful exception I’ve experienced to this, is being a part of my beloved Love Your Vibe community —where we truly feel Seen, Safe, Celebrated & Supported…loved & not judged ♡
Mother Teresa said: “If you judge people, you have no time to love them.”
For heart-centered souls like us, this realization can be a game-changer.
When someone:
Judges how you live your life… Let them.
Criticizes your dreams…
Let them.
Forms opinions about your choices…
Let them.
Because here’s the truth: their opinions are not your responsibility. They’re a reflection of their story, not yours.
Why This Matters
By releasing the need to control how others see you, you free yourself to live authentically. You stop wasting energy on pleasing everyone and start showing up as the radiant soul you’re meant to be.
A Heart-Centered Practice
Here’s a simple exercise inspired by Mel’s theory:
1. Pause when someone’s opinion feels hurtful.
2. Take a deep breath and silently affirm, “I let them think what they need to think.”
3. Shift your focus to, “Let ME decide how I wish to show up—because that’s the ONLY thing I can control.”
The Power of Letting Go
Making peace with others’ opinions is one of the most liberating things you can do.
It allows you to step out of fear and into freedom.
This weekend, I invite you to join me in letting THEM…and letting YOURSELF thrive.
Together, I believe we can create miracles by standing confidently in our light!
What’s one opinion you’re ready to release this week? Hit Reply and let me know—I’d love to witness you on this ‘Let Them’ journey ☆
To Your Greatness,
E
PS: AND… if you feel inspired to learn more about how it might serve you as a sensitive & heart-centred person to be part of a loving & non-judging community committed to your Personal Evolution…don’t hesitate to Hit Reply (where our chats are completely confidential) and let’s chat ♡
