For over 20 years, every time I saw a white Mercedes-Benz CLA Coupe 250, my heart skipped a beat. I loved her clean feminine lines. To me she was the most beautiful car on the road. And although I knew one day I would own one, I didn't know HOW I would. If I'm being REAL honest, deep down I did not feel worthy of her.

“We've got better things to spend our money on.”
“This isn't the right time.”
“My husband is not going to agree to this.”

So I kept driving my Mazda. A great little car I was super grateful to acquire during Covid, when cars were scarce and my old Ford Edge broke down.

What I didn't tell people though.

For the last little while, I'd been parking as far away as possible from wherever I was going.

Why? Because I was embarrassed of my car. 

The front bumper had a hole in it. My windshield had taken a rock hit and the crack was spreading. My sweet little ride did not FEEL like me anymore.

Every time I pulled up to an event, a networking lunch, a speaking engagement, a meeting with a high-level client, I would find the furthest spot in the lot and walk in hoping nobody saw me get out.

I am a woman who teaches others how to become Miracle Magnets. I help people up-level their identity, raise their vibration, and manifest the life they truly desire.

And yet I was sneaking away from my own car. Pretty sad, right?

What did I realize? When your outer world stops matching your inner world, your soul starts sending signals.

Mine had been sending them for a while. I just kept overriding them.

Not yet. Not now. Maybe later.

The truth about identity: you can do all the right things. The affirmations, the vision boards, the mindset work, and still not shift. Not at the level that actually changes what you're willing to accept.

Real identity shift doesn't feel like a decision.

It feels like intolerance.

You don't choose to change. You simply can't tolerate the old anymore.

OK…so recently, I've invested in several ‘upgrades’ through various programs and memberships in personal growth communities. Most notably I healed some old money stories.

Also, we spent 40K renovating our 35 year old home. It now feels brand new. We also treated ourselves to a luxury new bed. Wow…game changers. 

Within the last month, (and I believe it was due to my internal & external shifts) I experienced an incredible day filled with a series of unexpected miracles ☆

Firstly, a ‘woo woo’ Zoom call I serendipitously attended, where I actually felt my DNA shift through an intuitive art & light language activation session; then a group call that turned into private coaching that transformed my business; followed by a lunch with a woman I did not know, but felt I'd known forever, and moments where we felt our friend Tammy, who passed away last fall, was sitting right there at the table with us, and the miracles we experienced made us cry. We felt deeply that Tammy brought us together to co-create something extraordinary together.

My vibration was through the ROOF by the afternoon ☆

By the time I pulled out of that parking lot to drive to Hippo Wine Club in Hamilton, I was already a different person.

Sitting in that Mazda, with the cracked windshield and the broken bumper, I just thought:

I can't do this anymore. This car is NOT me anymore.

So I pulled into the Mercedes dealership and said: 

How much can you give me for this Mazda and can you get me into a CLA 250?

He said: Yes, madam.

He ushered me into an incredible CLA 250, with seats called Bahia Brown…not my favorite colour…yet I felt it immediately.

I'm home.

That night, I didn't go home and ask my husband for permission.

I asked for his SUPPORT. 

There's a difference. 

The old Elvira would have probably cried. Bargained. Made it emotional. Gone Power Over or Power Under, either pushing until he caved or shrinking until she gave up.

This Elvira said: Babe, I can't do Mazda anymore. I sat in my car today. I need you on board.

He pushed back a little. I held my ground: calmly, clearly, without manipulation.

And he came around rather quickly. On Thursday, we went together. He looked at the car. He said, yeah, it's you.

We bought it.

I whimsically named her Cognac after my dear departed daddy's favorite drink and a little brown hippo I picked up at my friend's wine club that I attended right after I fell in love with my Mercedes. Cognac is the colour of her seats. 

She sits in my driveway now and every time I walk past her I feel it:

This is who I am now. My nervous system feels extremely settled in her presence. 

Money is simply energy. 

I believe that when we match the vibration of what we desire, it has no choice but to flow to us.

My Mercedes had been my dream car for more years than I can remember. But for most of those years it was out of reach because it didn't match the vibration of who I was then.

An identity shift changed that. I finally became the woman the car had been waiting for.

That's how manifestation actually works… and exactly what the Miracle Magnet Method is built to create.

A real, deep, lasting identity shift, the kind that makes your old life feel intolerable and your dream life feel inevitable.

My 1:1 private AND 6-Month Group Mentorship Programs is where our clients do that work. In a small, intimate settings. With real support, real tools, and real transformation.

If you're tired of wanting things and not having them. Tired of the gap between who you know you are and how you're actually showing up, this is for you.

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I deeply believe that my new inner landscape combined with my uplevelled outer environment led to my recent soul expansion, allowing my dream car to find ME ☆

I ask you…what Identity Expansion might be possible for you if you became a Miracle Magnet?

Remember, you were never meant to keep parking far away.

At Your Service,

E