I was a single mom for 8 years to a beautiful son and years later I became the stepmother to 3 traumatized teens. Their father had to remove them from a challenging situation…many kilometers away from everything they were familiar with.
It was tough for all of us, and I can honestly say I didn’t show up at my best.
Structure and control have always been a strong ‘Act’ for me, and it certainly didn’t suit this situation when I should have come from a place of empathy, love, and understanding.
We managed (barely) and I was often in a state of depression, anger, and resentment. I began drinking very heavily to ‘deal’ ie: cope with my emotions. In the process, I hurt myself and those around me. I began blaming everything and everyone around me and did not take any accountability for how I showed up in this toxic family dynamic.
‘The Love Your Vibe Miracle Mindset’ came into my life in my darkest hour. The tools presented to me seemed ‘doable’ and although I worked with some of them, I didn’t truly commit to my journey of healing, self-love, and personal development.
Money was an issue. My marriage was all but falling apart and I couldn’t see out of the fog of resentment, anger, self-pity, and loathing. I realized that if my life was going to get better, it was up to ME!!!
I began taking radical responsibility for how I was showing up. I committed to doing the ‘inner work’. I was committed to ‘raising my vibration’…so I would become a ‘Miracle Mindset Mentor’.
Of course, I’m human and I still have dark days, however now with my ‘The Love Your Vibe Transformation’ teachings and tools, the darkness doesn’t dig its claws in me as deeply and I can bring myself out by flipping my script!
I can now feel it to heal it… acknowledge it and shift out of it. It’s a MIRACLE really, compared to the old way I used to process ‘the dark times’.
In 2018 I experienced my ‘blessed breakdown’, and boy did it snap something inside me! I think I can honestly say if this had happened a year before, I would have ended up in the hospital.
I believe that the tools gifted to me from Elvira and others I’ve learned from on my spiritual path, adding compassion and self-love, brought me out to the other side of this event feeling lighter, more whole and complete than ever before.
I believe that the person I’m BEcoming today is who I’ve always been. It’s who was always inside but I believed I wasn’t good enough to feel this good. Can you relate?
The anger and self-loathing are healed and integrated. I trust MYSELF. I listen to my intuition. I recognize and correct my ‘people pleaser’. I know I’m meant for more in this life and so are YOU. We ALL are!
If you resonate with anything that I have shared, I would love to be your humble guide. It would be my greatest honour to serve on your journey and remind you of your greatness as Elvira has always reminded me.